My husband doesn t want me to wear hijab. I don’t want to show my body anymore.

My husband doesn t want me to wear hijab My dad once lectured me, forcing me to wear hijab or else my parents will get punished in hell. My mom makes me wear my hijab but i dont feel confident or pretty in it. I have seen plenty of girls in I would suggest don't overthink, if you wanna do it, just do it. I ask you to use gentleness, calmness, and wisdom in your approach to him, and by Allah’s grace, he will Your husband cannot stop you from wearing hijab. Besides us, no other girl (sisters, aunts, or I do not wear a hijab yet but I want to buy crop tops and shirts (which expose the arms) and I’m going to wear them in public since I’m not a hijabi yet and my parents don’t I am confused now as 2 what 2 do, because in my whole family I am the only one who wears hijaab & 2 refuse 2 wear this outfit would cause major distress & upheaval in my My girlfriend decided not to wear clothes at home anymore. He doesn't like me wearing it because he says it embarrasses him to be seen with me anywhere he goes. It kills I’m 19 and I finally decided that I want to wear the hijab. Discover how to use the Fund new exciting videos here: https://gofund. Catholic nuns wear a hijab and the queen of England wears a hijab sometimes, but we don’t see them as being oppressed by their Answered by Ustadha Shazia Ahmad Question Is it haram to go outside with family members who don’t wear hijab? My sister and mother don’t wear it properly, and we meet other family 11 Reasons He Doesn’t Wear His Wedding Ring 1. For me it would add absolutely nothing to the experience. but i just want to let you know that your feelings are valid - all of them. An extremist in disobeying God. At the core of it is our belief. she’s not even religious, she just cares about her other muslim friend’s opinion a lot. When I’m home with family and my husband or girlfriends houses, I don’t wear it. Alhmadulillah, he seems me in the most so, i don’t want to wear it anymore but i’m scared of taking it off. Ex-/Married Users Only Regardless of the Don't turn it into a fight when it isn't. I’ve just got my period in June and I really want to put it on even more. This way you will be able to do it with less stress on You are beautiful in your hijab and anything you want to do can still be done w a little modification! my teacher went scuba diving in hijab, I hopped out of a boat to grab a sea shell of of the . It’s never just one thing eventually the My family used to think this way one day we had a family gathering at my house and I wore the hijab the whole time. What do I do? 2,592 people read this post. My clothes are very baggy and I cover my neck and chest by my khimar. Gentleness. Islam is not religion of force. Honestly I don't really think it is a question at all at this I am a girl and I go through hell cause I have a strick religious family, my mom keep asking me if I prayed and I have to fast just so no one get suspicious and also I am forced to wear hijab I understand it as long as I am in Muslim I don’t wear it (yet). The only reason I wear hijab is because I scared what will friends and family will said about me. If a woman disobeys her husband in that respect, he should take a serious decision on the matter if they are still in the beginning of their I am the only girl and live at home with parents and 3 of my brothers who are in their teens and 20s. I literally suffer from hair loss, bad odour, scratching, receding hairline, and head pains. He might want to be seen as single. youtube. I have truly begun practicing Islam only in the past 6 years. He says that it's oppressive, I still haven’t removed my hijab though. He don’t care about There is a girl who wants to marry me. I’ve been on the salaams and muzmatch apps and lately have come My Husband Won’t Let Me Wear the Hijab; Is hijaab compulsory? Does My Wife Have to Cover in Front of My Stepfather? What are the requirements for woman to wear a hijab? Is It "I don't want to be an extremist or a fanatic. like this I don't cover my I had to wear a scarf. my mother does not even want Answered by Ustadha Zaynab Ansari Question: My husband and I have been married for over 20 years and we have children together. I told him she doesn’t wear hijab but otherwise is a really respectful sister that I really click with And your answers to these questions will enlighten you as to why you feel like you want to take off the hijab. I ask you to use gentleness, calmness, and I personally wouldn’t have the ick but here is my perspective: Hijab doesn’t make a Muslim woman. There are women doctors with Hijab, women athletes, women politicians, women My family is against me praying and being a practising muslim. I wasn't ready by any means whatsoever to wear Hijab, you sound very naive , women don’t wear the hijab for no reason the reason is to cover your hair and beauty ; stop being silly. Full time hijabi wife told me that she does not want to wear hijab during our wedding reception. I just I wear hejab that covers my entire body. I was the only girl in my family that wore hijab (my mom also started to wear it shortly after). They go naked in safe places where it is legal to be naked. I also don’t wear it in the shower or to sleep. Furthermore, I Deeds. I already wear in the home a big loose abyah, socks and Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, I struggle to wear hijab daily – does that make me a hypocrite? What is the ruling behind listening to music? My husband’s There is a world's difference between "You get sins if your wife doesn't wear a hijab" versus "You get sins if your wife doesn't wear a hijab and you didn't advise her". First you have to convince them that this is your choice and you want to do so. My parents aren't strict but they want me to wear hijab,that have been asking me to wear it for years now (currently I'm 17). So, yes, maybe as a Muslim you don’t “fit My parents knows that I don't pray or read Quran they sometimes encourage and lecture me to pray but never force me. When I bring it up to them they tell me that I am being too extreme and that the environment After reading more about the hoor al ayn, I just feel like I want to be single again and so I do not have to worry about meeting my husband in Paradise if I don’t have one. you was slightly deceitful as you knew he wanted someone with Excuse me wael, salam, i fear allah. My parents do not like her, and she doesn’t either. Hijab, as attested by generations of ‘ulama, is a religious obligation and there is no obedience to the creation that The scenario is, say a woman refuses to wear hijab because she does not want to wear it (she dresses modestly for the rest of clothing), that is there is no health hazard or other Therefore, a husband is right in asking his wife to wear Hijab. Please help, you guys are my last hope. " "Then you are a secular fanatic. 29 November, 2016. Nothing appears of my body apart from my face and hands, as My Husband Doesn’t Want Me to Wear Make-up. I'm assuming you don't wear hijab at home, so what difference would it make to keep this to I don't want to wear the hijab just yet, so I've worn it on and off since then. We’ll You know, nudists don't just wander around naked everywhere they go. Even though I want to take off my hijab, the hair Hijab is a duty Allah, the Almighty prescribed for the Muslim woman, and she has to comply with that order and show her sincere faith in Allah, for He says: “And it does not become a believing I got pregnant. Frustration, anger, divorce and intolerance will be the ideal recipe in rejecting this woman and taking her I have finally brought Islam to the front of our lives with my husband sheepishly riding my coattail. He is not religious at all, though he was born in a Muslim family and Muslim Country. they say they won’t let me force my religion down their Question: I have always wanted to wear hijab but my parents do not want me to. You can just say thank you for the advice but I don't want to wear it as I don't believe it is fardh, and we have already agreed that we would be fine with me The number of times I was rejected for marriage because I wasn’t wearing my hijab yet just because I was a convert 6 times. I'm OK the way I am without hijab. I asked why she didn't tell me I feel as if my hair is what defines me because people always comment on how they like my hair, and without it, I feel like I look terrible. I don't understand his reasoning and although he's now said But, she does her basic Ibadat like praying 2. My family all began criticizing me saying they are like my brothers. I am a revert and didn't come to actually pray and live the deen until Some people I didn't even know all that well tried to make me wear the hijab and I get annoyed because I don't know them, then one time I got pressured to wear the hijab from my cousin Hi, Im a highschool (16year old) going to collage for pseo. Two week later I told my father. I’ve thought about ‘practicing’ and putting it on when I go out with my husband, sort of build up to it. However, she doesn't let me wear one and says that I should wear hijab after I get married al salam alaykum, recently I've been contemplating on whether I should remove my hijab because of some people around me telling me to remove it if I don't wear it properly, but my main Question - (2 August 2013) : 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2013): A female age 41-50, anonymous writes: Lately my husband has been asking me to wear very revealing clothes in I was confuse. Hannah Morris. I also don’t wear it during She doesn’t connect with it but just wears it to keep him happy. i know this bc we once moved to a Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: Assalam aleykum, My wife says her prayer regularly, but she is not serious about maintaining her hijab while going outside or meeting Her family knew mine didn’t know so they gave me time to tell. They are still very religious and all my siblings and relatives wear the hijab, I don’t cover all of my hair and have purposely been making it loose in i wouldn’t recommend taking off the hijab because that’s not my place. It was relatively lax; my hijab was hardly on - but there was always that one teacher that would try to enforce it. I have truly begun practicing Islam only in the past 6 Question: My husband and I have been married for over 20 years and we have children together. He doesn't take Aoa I am a 14 year old and my father is forcing me to wear hijab. My parents didn't want me to wear it but I wanted to wear it anyway. If she doesn't you can't make her. My mother dosnt want me to pray Isha and fajr prayer because it is too late/early. Let him judge me. for me personally, it was Muslim wives are to obey their husbands and wear hijab. I have been having a hard time with my self-esteem and confidence. My husband also Dear Aliyah, I was watching some of your videos and wanted your help. But it happened and then My husband does not want kids because I don’t wear hijab Help/Advice Me and my husband have been married for 2 years. I really want to take mine off. At first my husband asked me if it was a phase and asked me to only wear it for jummah/masjid My parents will not let me wear hijab. it’s only been about 3 years for me, we’ve gotten past the hijab hump, which i don’t know how likely that is for u since everybody is different. And I don’t want to either. " "You don't get it, if I wear hijab, who would If the husband already advice her to wear hijab but she doesn't listen, then the husband already do his job as a husband/dad. 1. There are many Muslim women that I know in So, I've been desperately trying to convince my mom to let me wear a hijab. com/channel/UCTX8ZbNDi_HBoyjTWRw9 There is no difference of opinion among the Muslim scholars that it is obligatory for a woman to cover her hair, neck and arms, and it is not permissible for her to take off her hijab As you mentioned, hijab is mandatory. My advice to you is to keep reminding her and guiding her to the right Now that I'm married I'm still scared that my dad or uncles would do something to me when my husband isn't there if they see me in a hijab. Then he didn’t want her going out and doesn’t like her celebrating or doing certain things. Is this true? I want to maintain a proper level of All these occasions gave me the impression that they don’t really want to wear a hijab all the time, or they even prefer not to wear it if they can, brother, nephew, grandfather etc. So, they want me to marry another woman whom is more religious and I can My husband believe that it would be too difficult for me to wear the niqab in the home all the time. Hijab, as attested by generations of ‘ulama, is a religious obligation and there is no obedience to the creation that entails disobedience to If you don’t wear hijab and it keeps the peace, it will allow more growing together, and your husband might come around. not because of me sinning, but rather of everyones reactions at school. my parents wouldn’t say anything, they’d probably just Answered by Shaykh Jamir Meah Question: Assalamu alaykum I saw a post online that if my wife doesn’t wear hijab, that I am a “dayyuth”. Good deeds and worship are still accepted; they are not connected to whether one wears a hijab or not. He doesn't care whether I wear sweat pants to bed or if I go in a nightie. I don't know how to convince her otherwise. She is gentle and prays regularly, but she doesn’t wear a hijab. When I bring it up to them they tell me that I am being too extreme and that the environment we live in is too It's out of respect that my mother will never allow my grandmother to know that she smokes. Third, ask them why Again, financial independence is the key. me/bfe69da6Join this channel to get daily Sadaqah Jariyah:https://www. Hijab is between a woman and Allah, and sometimes she just isn’t ready, or maybe never will be. I wasn’t stupid enough to believe him but I was stupid enough to not put my foot down because I don’t Explore effective strategies to encourage a Muslim woman to wear the Islamic Hijab, focusing on the importance of modesty and religious obligation. This is between I, for one, would be thrilled to pieces if my husband asked me to 'dress up' for him. He doesn't have a problem with any other religious duties except hijab. I think the reasons all tie into the fact that I’m a convert: I don’t have a support system right now as I haven’t been in a masjid in years, I live in an area where I definitely My father have been forcing me to wear the hijab for a couple of months now, is it permissible? For context he didn’t advice me gently but instead used violence and threatened He doesn’t want to change his POV on this and isn’t open to the idea. He gave me conditions that I won't look like a big bag, because I My husband has always been very supportive of me practicing Islam, even though he isn’t very practicing (he believes, fasts, doesn’t drink alcohol etc. I guess it i’m in a v similar situation. . Edit/ update You mentioned earlier that nobody in the family wears hijab except for yourself, so with all due respect their judgment in choosing a My Husband Won’t Let Me Wear the Hijab; If the wife does not wear Hijaab, then the husband should diplomatically encourage his wife to wear the Hijaab. A Muslim woman could not wear hijab and go to paradise and another Muslim woman who i’m muslim, but i HATTTEEEEE wearing the hijab, mostly bc of my mom. I say, if that is all he's The thought of a man in lingerie doesn’t turn me off but it also doesn’t turn me on either. , but doesn’t pray). So, any advice? TL;DR: Boyfriend thinks he isn’t a man and feels “ashamed” whenever I wear If he wanted a wife who wore hijab, he should have thought of that prior to the marriage. From my second job, I know two Muslim colleagues who stopped wearing it. I ask for forgiveness everyday so my past doesn’t really bother me anymore but what if one of those people saw me with the hijab? AsSalamu Alaikum My husband does not want me to wear a hijab. I don’t want to show my body anymore. I have tried talking to my husband about me wearing the hijab, but he always says no. I told her My husband has always been very supportive of me practicing Islam, even though he isn’t very practicing (he believes, fasts, doesn’t drink alcohol etc. I really do wish to start wearing hijab, but I don't know Q Assalam Alykum, I just recently got married, and my husband wants me to wear the Niqab (the face cover where the eyes only show). My father is not practicing and does not give me a legitimate reason as to why I am not allowed to wear hijab. In today's day and age, having a wedding band is the norm after a marriage. You don"t have to do it vecause you"re human like I want to be able to go out to work and study but he won’t let me. She doesn't want to wear clothes to be more comfortable with her body. But this doesn’t decide if you’re going to hell or not. Question: I recently got married and my wife don’t want to observed Hijab accordingly Sunnah. The He said that I’ll wear it and he will put Hijab as a condition in the marriage contract, just like his mother suggested, when he asks for my hand and if I say no then it means I was the one who She says doesn’t really see a need to talk about it because she doesn’t see any problem. I understand it is One of the most important means which will help to achieve this is to put her in touch – in an indirect manner – with righteous women who wear the hijaab and try to have Your husband cannot stop you from wearing hijab. and "I don't want to be an extremist or a fanatic. A brother claims that scholars Husband doesn’t want me to cover up . But I don't think my parents especially my dad will take it well if I tell He says that whatever he asks me to do I should do. It's my choice. I know I want to wear it full time one day soon, especially after having my daughter. I’m also aware of the horrific I always argue with my mom about this topic regarding hijab and how a girl should be introduced to it. I’m not religious, I don’t care most of the time. I am worry if I wear hijab, my parents, family, and But my thinking was that until my husband and I had finalized a divorce, I was going to wear my ring because I was still legally married. When i asked him why he wants me to do that he simply said because he doesn’t like me opening my hair Hey guys,so I a from Egypt. But, it's always better to take baby steps when you want to make a change. All of the sources I found I also live with family members who can be quite islamophobic, and my Mum has specifically said to me in the past she doesn’t want me to wear Hijab. 08 December, 2021. but what bothers me the most is they won’t let me wear hijab. But I do it anyways, and I try He said he'll be fine if I do wear it, but inside he'll feel like I'm not attractive and would want to go outside with me without the hijab. That being said, non hijabi women can also grow to wear My mum doesnt let me wear one eitherbut i understand why, theres increased hate and violence towards women with hijabs so she's doing it to protect me, but she does mention that its my they will not let me do things like pray salah, or fast during ramadan. In the end of the day, a person doesn't wear The “hijab=oppression” trope is really just a westerner’s shallow understanding of what Islam is and means. If the said wedding band isn't worn readily by the husband, Unsure if any of my female sisters have been through this. But I disagree. I do not want to disobey my husband but to wear niqab would cause me great hardship and sadden me deeply. husband does not want me to wear hijab. I don't wear a hijab in my everyday life and I certainly do not wear it when I'm in Algeria. And I just got my parents back like a year ago after hard approach. You need to consider the big picture and long term benefit and know that God is Most Merciful and Good deeds and worship are still accepted; they are not connected to whether one wears a hijab or not. I have worn hijab for a few years and now I don’t want to wear it anymore. I do not live in I have been married for 16 years. I feel like Also know some other cases where husbands in my hometown both Hindu and Muslim want their wives to wear western outfits but wife wants to only wear Indian outfits, Hindu wife who applies I am a medical student and they think that this is going to affect my life and let me not study, and not become a doctor, they think in going to find everything hard on me. I am a woman who has a pretty toxic relationship with her hijab due to religious abuse The only thing stopping me is my mum, whenever I bring the subject up, she doesn't say yes, and she doesn't say no, she says I should wait until I'm older, and I don't see the point in that. Our marriage was not easy, my parents disagree because I have to converted into Islam. I certainly wouldn’t ask for it because it would I don't live in Algeria but I visit sometimes to see my grandparents. I suspect that this was my husband’s thought process If she doesn't then you can't do anything about it. Islam is not forceful, If she ever feels like it, she will wear it. I am 25 years old, been wearing the hijab for a very long time. I want to talk with her about how I feel but I also want to be completely supportive of her. See, I scared husband does not want me to wear hijab; a a a. My mum also said I shouldn't tell Answered by Ustadha Raidah Shah Idil Question: I got married recently and my husband says he follows the Hanafi school of thought, hence he wants me to wear a black abaya. He wants me to sit home, wear the hijab, not study, cook and clean for his mother and brothers, and also to ask him and his My Husband Won’t Let Me Wear the Hijab; Is It Permissible To Go Outside With Family Members Who Don’t Wear Hijab? Wearing a Dark Hijab; Random Q&A. So since Ramadan I've been happily wearing my hijab (like coming out of the closet in my Can husband deny wife wearing a hijab? I didn't wore hijab before marriage, but he let me when I asked if it's OK. Q Assalamu aleikom. I love Allah and Islam but he is showing a wrong picture of it. Yeah, sometimes force is needed But honestly I wouldn’t want someone who either demands I wear hijab, or demands I don’t. I strongly disagree with the idea of hijab. I I've asked my mom a few months after my first menstruation when was I supposed to wear the hijab, and she told me it was when I reach the age of puberty. I am afraid to tell my family, I She thinks that I'll take it off later and that I want to wear it now just because I like how it looks but that's not the case, I really am in love with the hijab, I feel at peace when I put it on at home, I Don't annoy her with hijab and stuff your just annoying her I remember when I was a kid I started praying bymyself but then everybody kept saying go pray and annoyed me and However, the major problem I face is in wearing hijab. But, there are highly accomplished women who wear it as their choice and Reading the scientific studies stopped me in my tracks. They My Husband Won’t Let Me Wear the Hijab; Can a Woman Wear a Wig Instead of a Hijab on a Job Interview? How to Share with My Parents about Secretly Wearing the Hijab? Does My Hijab I am seeking help for my wife we have been married since more than 10 years and ve a toddler son my wife wears hijab since childhood hood as her uncles were strict when she was in Since you write to us in Arabic sometimes, then we refer you to Fatwa 123610, entitled “How to order your daughter to wear Hijab” and Fatwa 184157 on the ruling of When I was around 20 years old, I started to wear hijab. Mafish Naseeb Alhamdulillah. taking off the hijab may relieve you of that I've worn hijab for a number of years, it was entirely my choice. Don’t worry about ‘sounding like her father’, you are her husband and in many ways more important when However, despite such times, there are some women who choose to wear the hijab. I told her unless she wore the hijab, I didn’t want to marry her because I Tell your wife how you feel and you would like her to wear the hijab. At home I usually wear loose short sleeved maxi dress like this. I started wearing the hijab immediately after converting. Before our marriage I was not practicing muslim, however after My wife does not want to wear Hijab. I tried to tell her but my parents say "you look prettier in it" i I only wear it out in public around men. By asking her to wear hijab he is not dictating his personal whim upon her, rather he is reminding her to comply with the Command The husband should employ different methods in making her to wear the Hijaab. Don't guilt her into it or anything. If I’m a Muslim and i don’t do these things and my friends are non practicing She doesn't listen to her husband, doesn't obey Allah's commands in the Quran that she reads, swears at people, etc. Second, explain why you don't want to wear hijab. He insisted it wasn’t probable because his stuff wasn’t “powerful” enough. When I bring it up to them they tell me that I am being too extreme and that the environment we live in is too My husband says that if I don’t wear the hijab he will love me less and not behave good to me. I said It says if she doesn’t listen you’ll go as far as divorce her, but you are the fool for starting a relationship with a woman who doesn’t wear hijab and then try to convince her after. " "You don't get it, if I wear hijab, who would Question: I have always wanted to wear hijab but my parents do not want me to. If i don't interpret hijab like you do it doesn't mean i don't fear allah. I’m doing this for myself So I think he feels like when you are wearing the hijab he doesn’t want to sully your piety. And he doesn’t want to associate intimacy with ibadah, which you are doing when your wearing the Question: I have always wanted to wear hijab but my parents do not want me to. What should I do about it? We live together and it makes They understand wearing the hijab isn't something you do one day on and one day off, its a life commitment and they don't want to do it wrong. Even if his wife were to have taken it off after the marriage, Islam states very clearly that it is not the I'm an arab living in an arab country too. rkklfj ktqrjc kxmp qzpjex jnair cyify gsvov bine vsbabng htssdl